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change is constant, here is how to deal with it, an Article by Rosina S Khan

Your daughter has finished secondary school education and is going for Higher Studies abroad. Or she is leaving for good to stay with her soul mate in their own home. Or your hubby is filing a divorce. All these are drastic changes - something difficult to cope. But what is the right way to deal with them? Read on to find out.
Any of these may come to you as a surprise and you may be having a hard time to accept the truth.
One way of looking at them is to look at the brighter side of the case, which may be next to impossible to imagine. Yet allow a tiny ray of hope to enter your mind, focus on it and it will enlarge. You will be feeling good within minutes.
For instance, your daughter's departure from your home will make more space in your home. You can build a library of books in that space or decorate it differently to make a guest room.
Your husband filing for divorce may be good in a way that it allows for further self-inspection, growth and independence. You are in charge of your life now - your own choices only matter. So many opportunities abound for you now.
For instance, you could take online courses, complete them, get certificates and try to find some work which matches your skill set. Or, you could get training in schools for cooking, making handicrafts, singing, playing a musical instrument or honing your skills on computers and programming.
Anything you learn is never a waste; rather it will come to use some time or the other.
Change is never so bad so long you know how to handle it. Or even if you make mistakes, you learn from them and deal with the change.
Any change you find is life-altering, teaches you to take it slow and easy. You do not have to battle with the whole change in one day - you can take it one day at a time and bear with it as much as you can until you get habituated.
You cannot avoid change. They will turn up in your life at some time or the other. So you should keep yourself sane and deal with it gracefully and work on yourself as well.
Any change that shows up in your life is for your good only. Try to trust the Universe for that. The Universe never ends on a negative but on a positive note. Believe it with all your heart and confront the change. You will likely get comfortable with time and feel happy that the change occurred in the first place.
Rosina S Khan has authored this article, demonstrating how you should deal with change lest they appear in your life.
For a wealth of free resources based on stunning fiction stories, amazing self-help eBooks, commendable articles, quality scholar papers and valuable blogs, all authored by her, and much more,
visit: http://rosinaskhan.weebly.com. for more
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